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Offline kenjoe41

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When is the right time!
« on: September 16, 2014, 04:14:29 pm »
Well, this community is full of men but most importantly they are all youth.

I don't know what you plans in life are but you might be asking yourself that when is the right time to get kids. In my latest gynecology and obstetric study, i would recommend that you and your lady partner decide to do it between the age of 22-33 years. This is more concern for the lady partner for this is the year when she is least at risk and a high chance of producing a health kid; other factors kept constant.
Any less then there is a chance the lady's uterus aint well developed and the pelvis isn't so easily movable. Hence there might be still-births, kids with cerebral palsy or erbsy palsy plus other complications.
Any more and mischarges plus the conditions above. These also tend to go for C-Section which can be related to helping a butterfly from its hatching cacoon. Mild Cerebral palsy might occur.

I am now in a public cafe, give you more latter.
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Re: When is the right time!
« Reply #1 on: September 16, 2014, 04:40:18 pm »
+= 30 years when i have a beard(hipster beard ofc). And all the knowledge i can posses of this tiny world.
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Re: When is the right time!
« Reply #2 on: September 17, 2014, 04:04:43 pm »
Well, their is no problem with whatever you choose but the problem is your female partner. Her safety and the quality health of the infant is paramount and worthy to consider what is her right time to get kids.
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Re: When is the right time!
« Reply #3 on: September 17, 2014, 06:22:30 pm »
Look, my aunt is an OBG, and since my mom works with her I hear stories about pregnant women and their woes on a daily basis. I hear 50yo women coming in pregnant with their first kid when they should be on the brink of menopause and they deliver just fine.
All I can say is that every stage in a woman's life has their risks, and there isn't one specific age that would be best. Just, over twenty, under thirty-five. The worst thing you could be is paranoid.
But yeah, if I had to choose an age, 25-ish would be the best.
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Re: When is the right time!
« Reply #4 on: September 17, 2014, 07:29:07 pm »
Just decreasing the risk of all that might occur. An 8 year old has ever given birth and everything was fine but in the campaign of reducing CP kids, i don't want you to be the next victim.
This should be part of your pre-natal counselling. There are alot of factors that would concern me as a therapist but don't be like the clients i receive in these third-world countries that only know ante-natal care.
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Re: When is the right time!
« Reply #5 on: September 17, 2014, 09:04:53 pm »
(Me? Me. Honestly, I'd rather die than have kids. One of me is enough for the world.)
Contrary to what the media says, pregnancies in third world countries like Iran (especially teen) are waaaaaaaay less than places like Canada and America (not counting the real rural areas). Yeah, sure, there are places in some other countries that are almost a century behind culture-wise, but that's being fixed.
And I don't think any eight year old should go through that. Kids shouldn't have kids. It's just wrong.
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Re: When is the right time!
« Reply #6 on: September 20, 2014, 10:43:30 pm »
I don't currently want children, and do not know if I ever will. As a woman I feel pressured to make up my mind so that if I do decide to have a child it can be done within a healthy age range. I fear that I will one day want one and then I'll be too old. On a side note: my family is always assuming that anytime I have a weird craving or if I am sick that I am pregnant. It drives me crazy!
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Re: When is the right time!
« Reply #7 on: September 21, 2014, 01:58:37 pm »
Quote from: fable on September 20, 2014, 10:43:30 pm
I don't currently want children, and do not know if I ever will. As a woman I feel pressured to make up my mind so that if I do decide to have a child it can be done within a healthy age range. I fear that I will one day want one and then I'll be too old. On a side note: my family is always assuming that anytime I have a weird craving or if I am sick that I am pregnant. It drives me crazy!

They probably wish you were pregnant.
I don't know how old you are, but take your time to make that decision for your life, it is life-changing and you need to want it, otherwise it will be really hard to get through the first years, which can be very exhausting. Yes, at some point you are too old, and you have to make your decision before that, so you don't regret anything.
Imagine yourself being old and without children. Does that feel alright for you?
Just don't let the time pass without deciding anything.
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