Pick a certain topic that attracts you the most and google the fuck out of it. There are tons of eBooks waiting for you, so just grab one and start reading! (->
https://evilzone.org/ebooks/ <-)
Besides, make sure to check out the tut section of this forum, some threads will surely leap to your eye and give you ideas of all dem fancy possibilities
When it comes to coding, take some general-purpose + beginner-friendly programming language and then rape google with it (although I'd suggest C++ or Python, you might want to generally avoid the common "omg-which-language-first" hysteria. Don't ponder too much, just pick one and start); plenty of great tutorials are right outta there, you absolutely can't miss em. Afterwards, read foreign code of works you'd love to call your own (but better don't actually do that), analyze em line-by-line(again: giyf!), and don't even dare to compile shit until you didn't get the whole point of each single statement. Go on like that until your brain finally produces something useful.
Summarized, I guess it is all about two simple core abilities:
Being able to 1. use search engines properly
and 2. entertain yourself without using your glans
Like that, shit keeps rolling on its own like nothing
Here's a little help on step one:
https://evilzone.org/hacking-and-security/where-to-start-with-hacking/